Kevin seemed to have no fear of heights at all and over
the years I’ve held my breath many times as his lack of fear was demonstrated.
The first time it came to my attention was at Yellowstone
Park when he was about 5 years old. The Yellowstone River has carved
out a canyon several thousand feet deep that is known as the “Grand Canyon
of the Yellowstone”. As we were touring the park, we came across
one of the canyon overlooks and decided to take a closer look. This
particular overlook was a very small area of about 100 square feet perched
on an overhang with a three-rail fence made of 1-inch iron pipe around
the perimeter. Beyond the fence was a vertical drop of over 1000
feet. Also, to get to this overlook, one has to negotiate about 30
feet of a three-foot wide path with vertical drops on both sides – on both
sides of the path was the iron pipe fence. Kevin, his mother, and
I started down the path. Kevin’s mother and I were a little tentative
and kept both hands on the fence. Kevin, however, had no fear and
he pushed past us and ran out to the overlook. My heart was in my
throat as I hollered for him to slow down and wait for us. He didn’t
slow up – he continued to run. When he reached the edge of the overlook,
he jumped up with his feet on the bottom rail and leaned over the top rail
which was about waist high and looked straight down to the bottom of the
canyon over 1000 feet below. I was sure my heart had stopped.
I continued to grope along as fast as I could while hanging on to the fence
with white knuckles until I finally reached him. He looked up with
excitement in his eyes and said, “Let’s throw a rock.”
When Kevin was about 16, we went swimming at the American
River with my brother Paul and two of his sons. When we arrived,
we spotted an area that looked pretty good - there were already some people
swimming there. There was a huge tree hanging over the river and
a 25-foot long rope was hanging down from one of the branches. The
kids were having a blast on this rope – dragging it way up the bank, running
back down and swinging across the water until they were 10 feet above the
water at the end of the swing. At that point they would let go and
come crashing down into the river. The kids eventually became tired
of the rope and soon one of the kids climbed the tree until he was about
30 feet high, then jumped into the river. The other kids then all
attempted to beat this stunt. Several of them equaled the stunt but
nobody beat him. A couple of rafters saw the action and stopped to
also try the jump. Kevin waited until last. I wanted to caution
him but didn’t want to embarrass him in front of everyone so I kept quiet.
Kevin soon got much higher than any of the others. At one point,
the next branch was higher than he could reach and I breathed a sigh of
relief that he was as high as he could get. He quietly surveyed the
situation, however, jumped up in the air, grabbed the next branch, and
pulled himself up to the next level before I could protest. I’m not sure
how high, but I’d swear he eventually was more than 50 feet above the water.
He finally stopped just long enough for everyone to see where he was, waved
at everyone below, and jumped into the river. No one attempted to
beat his jump.
In June of 1980, Kevin and I made a motorcycle trip to
Glacier Park with my brother Ken and his wife Sharon. On the way
back we stopped at Hungry Horse Dam which is a concrete arch dam about
550 feet high. We were all standing around on top of the dam waiting
for the elevator to take us to the bottom to tour the power plant area.
I was standing beside Kevin and we were both leaning against the railing,
which was about 6 inches wide, and a little more than waist high.
As we were shooting the breeze, discussing our adventures, Kevin casually
reached behind himself, put both hands on top of the railing, jumped up
slightly, and sat on the railing with his butt hanging over the edge and
his back to the 550-foot drop. My heart stopped and I almost fell
down my knees got so weak. Kevin was surprised that I was bothered
but when I asked him to get down, he did.